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H\u0259r bir \u00f6vlad\u0131n valideyinin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t hissi il\u0259 yana\u015fma\u011f\u0131 onun m\u0259n\u0259vi bir borcudur.<\/p>\n
G\u00f6y\u00e7ay D\u00f6vl\u0259t \u0130dar\u0259etm\u0259 v\u0259 Texnologiya kollecinin m\u00fc\u0259llimi \u0130lqar Yusifov bu d\u0259f\u0259 m\u0259qal\u0259sind\u0259 valideyn-\u00f6vlad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 toxunub. Onun yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 siz\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi t\u0259qdim edirik.<\/p>\n
“\u018fslind\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuya m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259k d\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dim son vaxtlar ail\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259si z\u0259minind\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallar\u0131n ba\u015f verm\u0259sidir.T\u0259\u0259s\u00fcf ki statiskaya n\u0259z\u0259r sald\u0131qda bu hallar\u0131n getdikc\u0259 artd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 ail\u0259daxili naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda cinay\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259tirib c\u0131xard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n da \u015fahidi oluruq. Bel\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259r c\u0259miyy\u0259ti narahat ets\u0259d\u0259 ,\u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259t \u00e7ox zaman bunun ail\u0259daxili m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 oldu\u011funu vur\u011fulay\u0131r v\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri s\u00fckutla qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r. Az\u0259rbaycan xalq\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r zaman Milli-m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin qorunmas\u0131 x\u00fcsusi \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131y\u0131b. Bu d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin qorunmas\u0131nda v\u0259 normal c\u0259miyy\u0259tin formala\u015fmas\u0131nda ail\u0259nin rolu dan\u0131lmazd\u0131r. M\u0259hz bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ail\u0259nin sa\u011flam v\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259k t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmas\u0131, valideyin-\u00f6vlad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259nziml\u0259nm\u0259si b\u00f6y\u00fck \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r. Ail\u0259 \u00fczv\u00fcl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda daim qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 sevgi, y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t olmal\u0131d\u0131r.Valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131na vaxt ay\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131, h\u0259r ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 uygun d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00fcsullar\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259lidir.\u018fks\u0259riyy\u0259t hallarda valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f arzular\u0131n\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259kl\u0259 onun \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur.V\u0259 getdikc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcd\u0259 hiss etm\u0259d\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ya\u015fanacaq bir problemin t\u0259m\u0259lin qoyur. \u0130.Yusifov qeyd edib ki, maraql\u0131s\u0131 budur ki, son vaxtlar m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin \u00e7oxu(h\u0259tta cinay\u0259tl\u0259r)ata v\u0259 o\u011ful aras\u0131nda ba\u015f verir. Art\u0131q x\u0259b\u0259r ba\u015fl\u0131qlar\u0131nda o\u011ful atas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc m\u0259lumatlar\u0131na tez-tez rast g\u0259lirik. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r vaxt\u0131 il\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259n tutaraq sevincl\u0259 onu m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 aparan v\u0259 h\u0259r c\u00fcr n\u0259vazi\u015f g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n bir insan\u0131 nec\u0259 oldu ki \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259s\u0259n. Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rinin \u00e7oxunun ba\u015f verm\u0259sind\u0259 maddi v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin rol oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u0259d\u0259 daxild\u0259 d\u0259rinl\u0259\u015f\u0259n problemin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin d\u00fczg\u00fcn qurulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Bu q\u0259d\u0259r do\u011fma v\u0259 \u0259ziz olan insanlar\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7atmas\u0131, o\u011fulun ata qatili olmas\u0131 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259\u0259c\u00fcbl\u00fc qar\u015f\u0131lansada bir o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr.B\u0259s n\u0259 etm\u0259li?Biz ki\u00e7ik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rin s\u0131\u011fortalamamal\u0131, etdiyi s\u0259hvl\u0259rin vaxt\u0131nda d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fa salmal\u0131, insanlara qar\u015f\u0131 sevgi a\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131y\u0131q.M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim v\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 il\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda onlara h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmal\u0131 oldu\u011funu, u\u015faqlara islam dini d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259 insanlar\u0131n bir-birin\u0259 m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t qarda\u015fl\u0131q v\u0259 mehribanl\u0131q g\u00f6st\u0259rilm\u0259sinin vacib \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259rini izah etm\u0259liyik.Yeniyetm\u0259 vaxtlar\u0131nda onlar\u0131n z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rin t\u0259siri alt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259m\u0259sin\u0259 cal\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, oturub-durdu\u011fu h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131n\u0131n kimliyin\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t etm\u0259li, gec\u0259 saatlar\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r \u015f\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 qalmas\u0131na imkan verilm\u0259m\u0259lidir. Bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 bacard\u0131qca birg\u0259 g\u0259zintiy\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xmal\u0131, yanl\u0131\u015f hiss etdiyiniz h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00fcz\u0259 vurmadan bu m\u00f6vzu \u0259traf\u0131nda s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259r aparmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Ata-o\u011ful m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n ba\u015fqa bir dost, bir h\u0259mfikir t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r formala\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r.Z\u0259hm\u0259tl\u0259 halal qazanc \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259yin, haramdan uzaq olma\u011f\u0131n, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 say\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yin vacibliyi onlara izah edilm\u0259lidir.Bir ail\u0259nin idar\u0259edilm\u0259sind\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131xan probleml\u0259rin h\u0259llind\u0259 bir olmal\u0131 ata o\u011fluna \u00f6rn\u0259k, o\u011ful atas\u0131na layiqli davam\u00e7\u0131 kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259lidir. Vaxt\u0131 il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m,uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t m\u0259ni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u0259n v\u0259 t\u0259sirind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xa bilm\u0259diyim hadis\u0259l\u0259ri sizinl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m.Dostlar\u0131mdan birinin q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n xeyir i\u015find\u0259 i\u015ftirak edirdim, qohumlar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259traf\u0131nda oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman b\u0259y bura yax\u0131nla\u015fan bir ki\u015fini g\u00f6r\u00fcb ordan n\u00fcmayi\u015fk\u0259ran\u0259 s\u00fcr\u0259td\u0259 uzaqla\u015fd\u0131.Kimliyini maraqlananda bu insan\u0131n b\u0259yin atas\u0131 oldu\u011funu v\u0259 o\u011flunun dostlar\u0131n\u0131n avtomobil karvan\u0131nda q\u0259za v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti yaratmas\u0131ndan narahat olub onlara diqq\u0259tli olma\u011f\u0131 dem\u0259sind\u0259n incik d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n bu add\u0131m\u0131 atd\u0131g\u0131n bildim.O vaxt bu m\u0259qamda vaxt\u0131 il\u0259 toyunda i\u015ftirak etdiyim apar\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n valideyinl\u0259ri m\u0259rk\u0259z\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259t ed\u0259rk\u0259n b\u0259yin atas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n d\u0259yi\u015fdiyini, m\u0259clisd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck kimi \u0259misinin oldu\u011funu elan ed\u0259rk\u0259n hissl\u0259rin\u0259 hakim k\u0259sil\u0259 bilm\u0259yib h\u00f6nk\u00fcrt\u00fc il\u0259 a\u011flayan v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn toy i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6vr\u0259ld\u0259n g\u0259nc g\u0259ldi g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcn\u0259.Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcnl\u00fck g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n v\u0259 yoxlu\u011funda onunla bar\u0131\u015fa bilm\u0259y\u0259n iki f\u0259rqli ogullar\u0131n m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259si. Tanr\u0131 Atalara ail\u0259sini v\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 qoruya bil\u0259c\u0259k bir g\u00fcc, bir q\u00fcdr\u0259t n\u0259sib edir.Onlar\u0131n sevgisini qazanmaq, n\u0259sih\u0259tini e\u015fitm\u0259k, xeyir-duas\u0131n\u0131 almaqla g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 i\u015f\u0131q sala bil\u0259rs\u0259n.H\u0259r bir o\u011ful bir ail\u0259nin \u00fcmid yeri, bir n\u0259slin davam\u00e7\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin atas\u0131d\u0131r.G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizi d\u00fczg\u00fcn quraq v\u0259t\u0259nimiz\u0259 layiqli \u00f6vlad olaq!”<\/p>\n
Davud Tarverdiyev<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" H\u0259r bir \u00f6vlad\u0131n valideyinin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t hissi il\u0259 yana\u015fma\u011f\u0131 onun m\u0259n\u0259vi bir borcudur. G\u00f6y\u00e7ay D\u00f6vl\u0259t \u0130dar\u0259etm\u0259 v\u0259 Texnologiya<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7315,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7314","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kos-yazarlari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7314","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7314"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7314\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7316,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7314\/revisions\/7316"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7315"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7314"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7314"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7314"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}