{"id":34718,"date":"2024-02-20T12:10:24","date_gmt":"2024-02-20T08:10:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/?p=34718"},"modified":"2024-02-20T12:12:20","modified_gmt":"2024-02-20T08:12:20","slug":"maarifl%c9%99ndirici-t%c9%99dbirl%c9%99rl%c9%99-yanasi-c%c9%99za-t%c9%99dbirl%c9%99ri-d%c9%99-gucl%c9%99ndirilm%c9%99lidir-vusal%c9%99-q%c9%99l%c9%99nd%c9%99rli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/?p=34718","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Maarifl\u0259ndirici t\u0259dbirl\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 c\u0259za t\u0259dbirl\u0259ri d\u0259 g\u00fccl\u0259ndirilm\u0259lidir!&#8221;-V\u00fcsal\u0259 Q\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259rli"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>Ail\u0259 sa\u011flam c\u0259miyy\u0259tin v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc d\u00f6vl\u0259tin t\u0259m\u0259lidir. Bir binan\u0131n t\u0259m\u0259li nec\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m olmal\u0131d\u0131rsa, ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li d\u0259 el\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259ni biz h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 da hesab ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Ail\u0259nin \u0259sas\u0131nda \u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131ca rol oynayan insanlar valideynl\u0259rdi. Y\u0259ni ana v\u0259 ata.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>U\u015fa\u011fa diqq\u0259t, qay\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r bir ail\u0259nin, h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u0259sas v\u0259zif\u0259si, m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u0259sas hiss\u0259si olubdur. Lakin u\u015fa\u011fa diqq\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 onlar\u0131\u00a0 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t v\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini unutduracaq q\u0259d\u0259r olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r \u015fey q\u0259d\u0259rind\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259m\u00e7inin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 yaln\u0131z g\u00f6z\u0259l yedizdirm\u0259k, geyindirm\u0259kl\u0259 d\u0259 valideyn \u00f6z borcunu \u00f6d\u0259mi\u015f hesab olunmur. H\u0259r bir valideynin \u0259sas v\u0259zif\u0259si \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qorumaqla yana\u015f\u0131, t\u0259lim t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq, onlar\u0131 t\u0259kc\u0259 ail\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 layiqli b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259kdir. D\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259n h\u0259r bir u\u015faq h\u0259m d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn faydal\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fclm\u0259lidir. Yoxsa gec-tez h\u0259m \u0259trafdak\u0131 insanlar, h\u0259m ail\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259nin ill\u0259rd\u0259 har\u0131nladaraq b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcy\u00fc \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Son zamanlar ba\u015f ver\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259r bir daha \u0259sas verir ki, maarifl\u0259ndirici t\u0259dbirl\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 c\u0259za t\u0259dbirl\u0259ri d\u0259 g\u00fccl\u0259ndirilm\u0259lidir.<\/strong> <\/span>Ba\u015fqalar\u0131na i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259 verm\u0259kd\u0259n h\u0259zz alanlar c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn olduqca t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259lidir v\u0259 onlar qanun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda cavab verm\u0259lidir. \u018fks\u0259r hallarda\u00a0 d\u00fczg\u00fcn h\u0259yat s\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259n, pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259n, har\u0131nlam\u0131\u015f v\u0259 q\u0259ddar valideynl\u0259ri olan u\u015faqlar bu c\u00fcr x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 sahib olurlar. Onlar ail\u0259d\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr v\u0259 bunun normal hal oldu\u011funu z\u0259nn edir.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>B\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 \u015fahidi oluruq ki \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l, ziyal\u0131, ail\u0259canl\u0131 valideynl\u0259rin nankor, pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 bir ail\u0259ni m\u0259hv\u0259 s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259yir. T\u0259bii ki bu hallarda\u201d u\u015faq evd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr\u201d- dem\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmaz, bu halda \u0259traf m\u00fchitin t\u0259siri, ail\u0259nin diqq\u0259tsizliyi, az zaman ay\u0131rmas\u0131 v\u0259 s s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r d\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. \u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n halda valideyn cavabdehdir.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>H\u0259r bir u\u015faq ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 al\u0131r, daha sonra m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259. \u018fg\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259llim u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n s\u0259hvini valideyn\u0259 deyirs\u0259 v\u0259 valideyn bunu m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 irad bildirirs\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n pis \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rini \u00f6rt -basd\u0131r edirs\u0259, o u\u015faq n\u0259inki \u00f6z\u00fc v\u0259 ail\u0259si h\u0259m d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yarars\u0131z v\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li olacaq.\u00a0 Hans\u0131 pe\u015f\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq h\u0259r bir valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259lim -t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 vaxt ay\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fn az\u0131ndan ax\u015famlar yem\u0259k saat\u0131nda, ya da yem\u0259kd\u0259n sonra ail\u0259 olaraq s\u00f6hb\u0259t etm\u0259li, bir -biri il\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131, he\u00e7 olmasa bir ne\u00e7\u0259 saat sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n uzaqla\u015f\u0131b ail\u0259si oldu\u011funu xat\u0131rlamal\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri qorunmal\u0131d\u0131r, m\u0259kt\u0259b v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t edilm\u0259lidir, valideynl\u0259r d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdiyi \u00f6vlad\u0131na sahib \u00e7\u0131xmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rinin u\u015faqlara a\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131nda valideyn v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin birg\u0259 f\u0259aliyy\u0259tinin x\u00fcsusi rolu var. \u0130ll\u0259rdir y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 istedadl\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259bli v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n biri kimi dey\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m ki birg\u0259f\u0259aliyy\u0259tin m\u00fcsb\u0259t c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri olduqca \u00e7oxdur v\u0259 bu f\u0259aliyy\u0259t n\u0259tic\u0259y\u00f6n\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>V\u00fcsal\u0259 Sad\u0131qova (Q\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259rli)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>&#8220;\u0130stedadlar\u0131 Tan\u0131yaq v\u0259 Tan\u0131daq&#8221; \u0130B-nin\u00a0 s\u0259dri<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ail\u0259 sa\u011flam c\u0259miyy\u0259tin v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc d\u00f6vl\u0259tin t\u0259m\u0259lidir. 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