{"id":34023,"date":"2023-12-31T14:04:38","date_gmt":"2023-12-31T10:04:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/?p=34023"},"modified":"2023-12-31T14:04:38","modified_gmt":"2023-12-31T10:04:38","slug":"etiraz-etm%c9%99yi-bacarmalidir-qizlar-vusal%c9%99-q%c9%99l%c9%99nd%c9%99rli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/?p=34023","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Etiraz etm\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r q\u0131zlar!&#8221;-V\u00fcsal\u0259 Q\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259rli"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olmaq&#8230;<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u00c7oxmu a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fckd\u00fcr b\u0259zi \u00f6zl\u0259ri d\u00fcnyaya y\u00fck olmu\u015f &#8220;valideynl\u0259rin&#8221; \u00e7iyinl\u0259rind\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 saxlamaq &#8220;y\u00fck\u00fc&#8221;, \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri da\u015f ba\u011flam\u0131\u015f, g\u00f6zl\u0259ri kor olmu\u015flar\u0131n \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f vicdanlar\u0131n\u0131n himay\u0259sind\u0259 olan daha ne\u00e7\u0259 azya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi il\u0259 iyr\u0259nc evcilik oyunu oynan\u0131lacaq. Bu d\u00fcnyada u\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259rini doyunca ya\u015famadan \u0259r evin\u0259 yola sal\u0131nacaq, ya da ni\u015fanl\u0131 q\u0131z obraz\u0131nda g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin daha bir \u00e7ar\u0259siz anas\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259c\u0259k. Ax\u0131 q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n da \u00f6z x\u0259yallar\u0131, \u00f6z arzular\u0131 var v\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar \u00f6nc\u0259 u\u015faq olmal\u0131, ail\u0259sinin qorumas\u0131nda olmal\u0131, diqq\u0259t, sevgi v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259lidir, sonra ayaqlar\u0131 \u00fcst\u0259 durma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131, pisi-yax\u015f\u0131n\u0131, do\u011frunu-yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 ay\u0131rd etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259lidir, sonra da se\u00e7im etm\u0259yi.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Laz\u0131m g\u0259ls\u0259 etiraz etm\u0259yi d\u0259 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r q\u0131zlar!<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u00d6z g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259ri u\u011frunda laz\u0131m g\u0259ls\u0259 azya\u015flar\u0131ndan da m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131d\u0131r q\u0131zlar. <strong>Valideyn\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t ham\u0131n\u0131n borcudur amma s\u00f6hb\u0259t onun erk\u0259n ya\u015fda qurban getm\u0259sind\u0259n gedirs\u0259 etiraz s\u0259sini y\u00fcks\u0259ltm\u0259lidir, onu duyan olacaq, m\u00fctl\u0259q olacaq<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Bir q\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na, \u00fcr\u0259yin\u0259 x\u0259yallar\u0131na daxil olan ki\u015fi d\u0259, \u00f6nc\u0259 \u0130nsan olma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r, ya\u015f\u0131na ba\u015f\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259lidir, \u00f6vlad\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda u\u015faqla ni\u015fanlanaraq, ona ba\u015fqa g\u00f6zl\u0259 baxaraq iyr\u0259nc m\u0259xluq oldu\u011funu isbatlayan &#8220;ki\u015fil\u0259r&#8221; in d\u0259 ictimai q\u0131na\u011fa, h\u0259tta laz\u0131mi c\u0259zaya ciddi ehtiyac\u0131 var. Bu c\u00fcr valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q c\u0259zalanmal\u0131d\u0131r ki bel\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259rin say\u0131 azals\u0131n.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p><em>Ail\u0259 ki\u00e7ik c\u0259miyy\u0259tdir. Ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li quruldu\u011fu g\u00fcn yenic\u0259 add\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 atan g\u0259ncl\u0259rin qulaqlar\u0131ndan s\u0131r\u011fa kimi as\u0131lan &#8220;anam, bac\u0131m q\u0131z g\u0259lin, \u0259l aya\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcz g\u0259lin, 7 o\u011ful ist\u0259r\u0259m, birc\u0259 d\u0259n\u0259 q\u0131z g\u0259lin&#8221; misal\u0131, sonradan e\u015fitdikl\u0259ri, &#8220;q\u0131z y\u00fck\u00fc duz y\u00fck\u00fc&#8221;, q\u0131zlar\u0131 olduqdan sonra da &#8220;q\u0131z\u0131n oldu q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 donunu \u00e7\u0131xart&#8221; misal\u0131, h\u0259tta , birinin q\u0131z\u0131 olanda sanki ba\u015fsa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 verirmi\u015f kimi, can\u0131n sa\u011f olsun, eybi yox, o\u011flu da olar kimi t\u0259s\u0259lliverici s\u00f6zl\u0259r korlam\u0131rm\u0131 beyinl\u0259ri&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Q\u0131zlar evin \u015firinliyidir -u\u015faqk\u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259llikdir, sonra oxuyub g\u00f6z\u0259l s\u0259n\u0259t sahibi olmaqd\u0131r, a\u011f g\u0259linlik geyib bir evin xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi olmaqd\u0131r, sonra anad\u0131r, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Sevginin, inam\u0131n oldu\u011fu yerd\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l d\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259 sahibidir. Qad\u0131n c\u0259nn\u0259tin qap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7ar\u0131d\u0131r, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunad\u0259k of dem\u0259d\u0259n, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131q g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fand\u0131r, ail\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn.. Q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sev\u0259k, qoruyaq.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olmaq&#8230; \u00c7oxmu a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fckd\u00fcr b\u0259zi \u00f6zl\u0259ri d\u00fcnyaya y\u00fck olmu\u015f &#8220;valideynl\u0259rin&#8221; \u00e7iyinl\u0259rind\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 saxlamaq &#8220;y\u00fck\u00fc&#8221;, \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":34024,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kos-yazarlari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=34023"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34023\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34025,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34023\/revisions\/34025"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/34024"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=34023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=34023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=34023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}