{"id":25200,"date":"2023-03-07T23:37:08","date_gmt":"2023-03-07T19:37:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/?p=25200"},"modified":"2023-03-07T23:49:45","modified_gmt":"2023-03-07T19:49:45","slug":"xosb%c9%99xt-olmagin-%c9%99n-goz%c9%99l-yolu-sahib-oldugun-ail%c9%99nin-d%c9%99y%c9%99rini-bilm%c9%99k-onu-h%c9%99r-seyd%c9%99n-qorumaqdir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/?p=25200","title":{"rendered":"Xo\u015fb\u0259xt olma\u011f\u0131n \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l yolu, sahib oldu\u011fun ail\u0259nin d\u0259y\u0259rini bilm\u0259k, onu h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n qorumaqd\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201cM\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 ail\u0259 institutumuzu nec\u0259 qorumal\u0131y\u0131q?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Ail\u0259 sa\u011flam c\u0259miyy\u0259tin v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc d\u00f6vl\u0259tin t\u0259m\u0259lidir. Bir binan\u0131n t\u0259m\u0259li nec\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m olmal\u0131d\u0131rsa, ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li d\u0259 el\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc olmal\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0Ail\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259r bir insan ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259li, ail\u0259nin sevincini v\u0259 k\u0259d\u0259rini birg\u0259 ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r. Ax\u0131 d\u00f6vl\u0259tin ki\u00e7ik formas\u0131 say\u0131lan ail\u0259 olmasa, c\u0259miyy\u0259t d\u0259 inki\u015faf ed\u0259 bilm\u0259z. V\u0259 bel\u0259 olan zaman g\u00fccl\u00fc d\u00f6vl\u0259td\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t ged\u0259 bilm\u0259z.<\/div>\n
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Ail\u0259ni biz h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 da hesab ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Ail\u0259nin \u0259sas\u0131nda \u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131ca rol oynayan insanlar valideynl\u0259rdi. Y\u0259ni ana v\u0259 ata. M\u0259hz onlar\u0131n say\u0259sind\u0259 biz b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb, boya-ba\u015fa \u00e7at\u0131r\u0131q. \u0130nsan h\u0259yatda h\u0259r bir zaman valideynl\u0259r\u0259 borcludur.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n \u015fahidi oluruq ki \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l, ziyal\u0131, ail\u0259canl\u0131 valideynl\u0259rin nankor, pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 bir ail\u0259ni m\u0259hv\u0259 s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259yir. T\u0259bii ki bu hallarda\u201d\u00a0u\u015faq evd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr\u201d-\u00a0dem\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmaz, bu halda \u0259traf m\u00fchitin t\u0259siri, ail\u0259nin diqq\u0259tsizliyi, az zaman ay\u0131rmas\u0131 v\u0259 s s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r d\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. H\u0259tta evd\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin diqq\u0259tind\u0259n k\u0259nar qalan, sevilm\u0259y\u0259n, t\u0259rifl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n u\u015faqlar tezlikl\u0259 pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bilir. Bu bax\u0131mdan ist\u0259nil\u0259n halda valideyn v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llimin i\u015f birliyi, \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rinin g\u00fccl\u00fc olmas\u0131 bu kimi hallar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 zaman\u0131nda ala bilir.<\/strong>
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Ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rinin u\u015faqlara a\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131nda valideyn v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin birg\u0259 f\u0259aliyy\u0259tinin x\u00fcsusi rolu var. \u0130ll\u0259rdir y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 istedadl\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259bli v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n biri kimi dey\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m ki birg\u0259f\u0259aliyy\u0259tin m\u00fcsb\u0259t c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri olduqca \u00e7oxdur v\u0259 bu f\u0259aliyy\u0259t n\u0259tic\u0259y\u00f6n\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Sa\u011flam ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li h\u0259m d\u0259 sa\u011flam evlilikl\u0259 qoyulur. Ail\u0259d\u0259ki h\u0259r x\u0131rda naraz\u0131l\u0131qdan b\u00f6y\u00fck problem yaradan t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin sa\u011flam ail\u0259 qurmaq \u015fans\u0131 az olur ki, bunun z\u0259r\u0259rini d\u0259 h\u0259m c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir, h\u0259m d\u0259 u\u015faqlar.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

B\u0259zi u\u015faqlar sevgiyl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259rk\u0259n, b\u0259zil\u0259ri sevginin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bel\u0259 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. B\u0259zi u\u015faqlar \u0259yl\u0259n\u0259rk\u0259n,\u00a0b\u0259zil\u0259ri \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259nin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259zl\u0259r.\u00a0B\u0259zil\u0259ri var -d\u00f6vl\u0259t i\u00e7ind\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rk\u0259n, b\u0259zil\u0259ri \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259y\u0259 h\u0259sr\u0259t qalarlar, u\u015faqlar var d\u00fcnyan\u0131 b\u0259z\u0259y\u0259r, u\u015faqlar da var ki b\u0259z\u0259y\u0259 m\u00f6htac…<\/em><\/strong><\/div>\n
M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 bir \u00e7ox probleml\u0259r var. Qlobal, istisadi, siyasi, ekoloji , maddi , eyni zamanda psixoloji probleml\u0259r, i\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131nda is\u0259 stress, aqressiya, konfliktl\u0259r v\u0259 s. M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 geni\u015f yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f probleml\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 olan konfliktl\u0259rdir.<\/div>\n
Bu probleml\u0259r d\u0259 insana psixoloji t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir, insan\u0131n saglaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olmas\u0131na, eyni zamanda birba\u015fa ail\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir.\u00a0G\u00fccl\u00fc v\u0259 t\u0259m\u0259li m\u00f6hk\u0259m qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bu c\u00fcr probleml\u0259r ail\u0259y\u0259 ayaq basa bilmir. Ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini bil\u0259nl\u0259r, h\u0259r ki\u00e7ik problemi b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u00fcrl\u0259r, \u00e7\u00fcnki ail\u0259nin d\u0259y\u0259rind\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck he\u00e7 n\u0259yin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259tta onlar\u0131 narahat ed\u0259n h\u0259r hans\u0131 prblemin bel\u0259 ail\u0259y\u0259 h\u00fczursuzluq g\u0259tirm\u0259m\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131 ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini pozacaq hala g\u0259tirmir, evd\u0259 laz\u0131ms\u0131z konfliktl\u0259r yaratm\u0131rlar.\u00a0<\/strong>Yax\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259 d\u0259,\u00a0pis g\u00fcnd\u0259 d\u0259 bir-birinin \u0259lind\u0259n tutub g\u00fccl\u00fc olma\u011f\u0131, ayaqda durma\u011f\u0131 bacarar g\u00fccl\u00fc ail\u0259l\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259\u00a0d\u0259\u00a0ail\u0259\u00a0s\u0259mimi v\u0259 sa\u011flam m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmal\u0131, ail\u0259d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259t olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018ftraf m\u00fchitin ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 pis t\u0259sirind\u0259n qa\u00e7maq, \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 \u00a0xo\u015fb\u0259xt olma\u011f\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0axtarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.
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Xo\u015fb\u0259xt olma\u011f\u0131n \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l yolu, sahib oldu\u011fun ail\u0259nin d\u0259y\u0259rini bilm\u0259k, onu h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n qorumaqd\u0131r.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
U\u015fa\u011fa diqq\u0259t, qay\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r bir ail\u0259nin, h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u0259sas v\u0259zif\u0259si, m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u0259sas hiss\u0259si olubdur. \u00c7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n b\u0259z\u0259yi olan xeyli sayda u\u015faqlar b\u0259z\u0259ksiz qal\u0131b. Ail\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faqlar da var..<\/div>\n
D\u00fcnyada n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faq var, amma u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015faya bilm\u0259y\u0259n, b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259y\u0259n.\u00a0\u0130\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259l\u0259r\u0259, \u0259dal\u0259tsizlikl\u0259r\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox m\u0259ruz qalan onlard\u0131r. D\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259d\u0259n onun ya\u015fay\u0131b-ya\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131na q\u0259rar veril\u0259n u\u015faqlar olur\u2026\u00a0Do\u011fulduqdan sonra, k\u00f6m\u0259y\u0259 m\u00f6htac-yen\u0259 u\u015faqlar olur.
\nH\u0259yata tutunma\u011f\u0131 bacarmadan h\u0259yatdan qopar\u0131lan u\u015faqlar, erk\u0259n nikaha m\u0259cbur olan u\u015faqlar he\u00e7 vaxt b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fcrl\u0259r.
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D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 televiziya verili\u015fl\u0259rind\u0259 \u015fahidi olmu\u015fuq ki, \u00e7ox m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsiz, i\u00e7ki d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn\u00fc, alt\u0131, yeddi u\u015faql\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 valideyn ad\u0131n\u0131 da\u015f\u0131ma\u011fa layiq olmayanlar \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n taleyin\u0259 bigan\u0259 qalaraq onlar\u0131 dil\u0259ndirir, ya da b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti d\u00f6vl\u0259tin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 at\u0131r.\u201d\u00a0Yeddi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m var,\u00a0d\u00f6vl\u0259t baxs\u0131n\u201d-\u00a0dey\u0259n valideyn\u00a0anlam\u0131r ki, \u00a0d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdiyin \u00f6vladlar\u0131yla birg\u0259 ki\u00e7ik bir c\u0259miyy\u0259t qurub yarad\u0131b\u00a0v\u0259 bu\u00a0ki\u00e7ik\u00a0c\u0259miyy\u0259ti \u00f6z\u00a0ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 s\u0259hvl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u0259hv edir. Onlara s\u0259fil h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fadaraq \u00f6z pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 davam ed\u0259n valideynl\u0259rin aidiyyat\u0131 qurumlar\u0131n m\u00fcdaxil\u0259si sonras\u0131 faydas\u0131z pe\u015fiman\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131n da zamanla \u015fahidi oluruq v\u0259 bu da onlar\u0131n m\u00f6hk\u0259m olmayan t\u0259m\u0259l \u0259sas\u0131nda qurduqlar\u0131 ail\u0259nin tezlikl\u0259 da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur.
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BMT-nin Ba\u015f Assambleyas\u0131n\u0131n 20 sentyabr 1993-c\u00fc il q\u0259tnam\u0259sin\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n 2008-ci ild\u0259n etibar\u0259n h\u0259r il Az\u0259rbaycanda 15 may \u201cBeyn\u0259lxalq Ail\u0259 G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d kimi qeyd edilir.\u00a0Bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn x\u00fcsusi qeyd edilm\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259d ail\u0259 institutunun inki\u015faf\u0131na, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rinin m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndirilm\u0259si v\u0259 g\u0259nc n\u0259sil aras\u0131nda t\u0259bli\u011f olunmas\u0131na t\u00f6hf\u0259 verm\u0259kdir.<\/div>\n
B\u00fct\u00fcn Ail\u0259l\u0259rimiz\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik v\u0259 rifah arzulay\u0131r\u0131q! \u00a0Xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259nin is\u0259 a\u00e7arlar\u0131 \u00e7oxdu- Etibar, inam, sevgi, minn\u0259tdarl\u0131q, diqq\u0259t, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015fma, h\u00f6rm\u0259t, sadiqlik, m\u0259suliyy\u0259t, m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t, qay\u011f\u0131….<\/strong><\/div>\n

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AF\u0130A.AZ sayt\u0131n\u0131n redaktoru<\/strong><\/div>\n
\u201c\u0130stedadlar\u0131 tan\u0131yaq v\u0259 tan\u0131daq\u201d \u0130B-nin s\u0259dri<\/strong><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cM\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 ail\u0259 institutumuzu nec\u0259 qorumal\u0131y\u0131q?\u201d   Ail\u0259 sa\u011flam c\u0259miyy\u0259tin v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc d\u00f6vl\u0259tin t\u0259m\u0259lidir. Bir binan\u0131n t\u0259m\u0259li nec\u0259<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":25201,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25200","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-siyast"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25200","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=25200"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25200\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25203,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25200\/revisions\/25203"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/25201"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=25200"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=25200"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rubin.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=25200"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}